Milhusbands.com is a community site for military spouses of the XY variety. We welcome husbands, fiances, and boyfriends. While we won't hang a "No Girls Allowed" sign on the clubhouse door (what fun would that be?), the content is going to be targeted to men. That said, ladies, feel free to poke around and join the conversation if you want.

The main portions of the site are the forums--The Husbands' Club--and the Journal. Those are both places to go to ask questions and post comments.

The "we" in the above paragraph refers to John and Tom, two civilian stay-at-home Navy husbands and dads.* Because of the small number of male spouses out there, we thought the Internet was the perfect solution. Geography doesn't matter.

This is meant to be a place for guys who are looking for friendship and advice. It's a place for guys who feel at home in their spouses' club and for guys who don't. So ask questions if you have them, and share your stories. We look forward to watching the community grow.

*If the weblog portion—i.e., the Journal—doesn't get updated for a while, it's because we both have toddlers to wrangle, which means we have very little surplus creative energy. It's all expended in efforts to mediate the rage we feel welling up inside every time we hear the word "NO!" barked from the mouth of a two-/three-year-old.